The Unmade Bed

The Unmade Bed

The Messy Truth About Men and Women in the 21st Century

Book - 2017
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In response to books such as Anne-Marie Slaughter's Unfinished Business , cultural commentator Stephen Marche examines the status of male-female relations in the twenty-first century--with the help of his wife, the writer and editor Sarah Fulford.

One warm spring morning in New York City, Stephen Marche, then a new father and tenure-track professor, got the call: his wife had been offered her dream job...in Canada. Their mutual decision to prioritize her career over his and move home to Toronto shed new light on the gender roles in their marriage and in the world they saw around them. As Marche provocatively argues, we are no longer engaged in a war of the sexes, but rather stuck together in a labyrinth of contradictions. And that these contradictions are keeping women from power and confounding male identity.

The Unmade Bed is a deeply researched, deeply personal exploration into the moments in everyday life where women and men meet. After all, within offices and homes, on the street, online, and in bed, we constantly ask ourselves: Who has the power? How much can we say? What are we expected to sacrifice? Is it possible to be equal? As he attempts to answer these questions, Marche explores the phenomena that have come to define our modern conversations on gender, from mansplaining and sexual morality to parenthood and divisions of the domestic sphere. In the process, he discovers that amid all this chatter, we are not actually facing the real issues--that true power remains shockingly elusive for women while the idea of masculinity, trapped between iconographies of power and powerlessness, struggles in a state of uncertainty to the point where manliness and crudity are almost synonymous. The only way out of these mutual struggles is together.

With footnote commentary throughout the book from Marche's wife, The Unmade Bed is a uniquely balanced and honest approach to the revolution going on in our everyday lives, a thought-provoking work of social science that is sure to be a conversation starter.
Publisher: New York :, Simon and Schuster,, 2017
Edition: First Simon & Schuster hardcover edition
ISBN: 9781476780153
1476780153
9781476780160
1476780161
Branch Call Number: 306.7 Marche 2017
Characteristics: ix, 241 pages ; 22 cm

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Toronto journalist who is a stay-at-home father of 2 talks about his experience. This account is rife with penetrating insights into the obvious. I did like his wife's comments which were the footnotes with a female take on some of hubby's experience. This might be an interesting book in 30 years to look back at a time when men were just starting to share parenting. As someone who knows several stay-at-home dads, this is not ground-breaking reading.

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LeighClaire
Jan 12, 2018

I was expecting more challenging content. Nothing new here!!

debwalker Mar 03, 2017

Ah housework. The final battle in domestic gender politics. Who cleans the toilet? Who vacuums the curtains? Wait. Do people out there still vacuum curtains? The debate from one of Toronto's power couples.

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